Thursday, October 8, 2015
(This is an email sent to me by a very good friend. He is 80 something years of age. yes I am friends with older people and these are very real platonic friendships. I learn so much from their wisdom. I have no idea who the author of this is but it sure is a good knowledge to pass on.)
Whether we carry a $300 or $30.00 wallet/handbag, the amount of money inside is the same;
Whether we drink a bottle of $30 or $3.00 wine, the effect is the same;
Whether the house we live in is 30 or 300 sq.m. the loneliness is the same.
Hopefully, one day you will realize, your true inner happiness does not come-from the material things of this world.
Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down, you go down with it...
Therefore..I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven & earth, .... That is true happiness!!
Five Undeniable Facts of Life :
1. Don't educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.
2. Best awarded words in London ... "Eat your food as your medicines.Â Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food"
3. The One who loves you will never leave you because even if there are 100 reasons to give up they will find one reason to hold on.
4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human. Only a few really understand it.
5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between, You have to manage...!
If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone..! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together..!!
Six Best Doctors in the World
Â 1. Sunlight
Â 2. Rest
Â 3. Exercise
Â 4. Diet
Â 5. Self Confidence
Â 6 . Friends
Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy healthy life.
Wednesday, October 7, 2015
I am at a point in my life where age meets expectations and who you are and what you have lived for is judged before you get to the tipping age of exclusion from the society that would feed you long as you serve them, which is 37 that is. I am an age closer to that. That is a decade after my last self audit. After that I was free from the shackles of what bound me for a decade or more that put me up to this point. I am thankful for that journey now I feel as an ever evolving human being, I crave and am to live for change and a higher level of self which I am trying to figure out right now not by might, but by sight and open mind.
Welcome to the dirty world of Mid life crisis. Yes, it exist in women. Yes it currently exists here.
It is a point where everybody is too busy of their own shit to even listen to you talk your way out of your rut. Thank God there are blogs for the cheapo s like me. Thank God there are therapists for the people who can well afford it.
Unlike a decade ago, I was neurotic, sad and mad. I was too vulnerable, too naive and too shallow.
Today I am more brewing, watchful and thankful. there is so much peace in anticipation. there is more patience in looking for answers. there is more mistakes that bear bittersweet fruits that you smile or laugh about. (This may sound too cliche' but..) There we're never regrets, only lessons learned. There are more shamans to go to and cause you to be introspective, those people who act as your human "tums" who tame down the acid that cause you to unnecessarily vomit. like a 5 year old. There is a sweetie little pie called Taluli and a wonderful little dog called Pablito.